[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.tulipy.cz\/je-to-laska-nebo\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.tulipy.cz\/je-to-laska-nebo\/","headline":"Je to l\u00e1ska, nebo&#8230;?","name":"Je to l\u00e1ska, nebo&#8230;?","description":"Vztahy obvykle vznikaj\u00ed na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 shod\u011b, z\u00e1jmu a z\u00e1lib\u011b. Jak ale rozeznat l\u00e1sku od n\u011b\u010deho, co s n\u00ed nem\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 spole\u010dn\u00e9ho, snad krom\u011b p\u0159\u00edznak\u016f? Snadno. L\u00e1ska je toti\u017e cit \u010dist\u00fd. Kdy\u017e v\u00e1m z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na druh\u00e9m, jeho z\u00e1jmech, pot\u0159eb\u00e1ch a bezpe\u010d\u00ed, nikoliv na tom, abyste jej mohli vlastnit. S jak\u00fdmi jin\u00fdmi v\u011bcmi si l\u00e1sku \u010dasto pleteme, [&hellip;]","datePublished":"2022-01-06","dateModified":"2023-06-07","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.tulipy.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.tulipy.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7b3e8bb7f7cc0c6ca940e74a10b952be4c7d81de8a980387c865f88889f02e3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7b3e8bb7f7cc0c6ca940e74a10b952be4c7d81de8a980387c865f88889f02e3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"tulipy.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.tulipy.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/love-699480_640_1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.tulipy.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/love-699480_640_1.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.tulipy.cz\/je-to-laska-nebo\/","about":["L\u00e1ska"],"wordCount":510,"articleBody":"Vztahy obvykle vznikaj\u00ed na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 shod\u011b, z\u00e1jmu a z\u00e1lib\u011b. Jak ale rozeznat l\u00e1sku od n\u011b\u010deho, co s n\u00ed nem\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 spole\u010dn\u00e9ho, snad krom\u011b p\u0159\u00edznak\u016f? Snadno. L\u00e1ska je toti\u017e cit \u010dist\u00fd. Kdy\u017e v\u00e1m z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na druh\u00e9m, jeho z\u00e1jmech, pot\u0159eb\u00e1ch a bezpe\u010d\u00ed, nikoliv na tom, abyste jej mohli vlastnit. S jak\u00fdmi jin\u00fdmi v\u011bcmi si l\u00e1sku \u010dasto pleteme, a ubli\u017eujeme t\u00edm druh\u00fdm, ale i sob\u011b?\u017d\u00e1rlivost a jej\u00ed d\u016fvody\u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se, \u017ee kdo \u017e\u00e1rl\u00ed, ten miluje. Ale je tomu skute\u010dn\u011b tak? A je za \u017e\u00e1rlivost\u00ed v\u017edy l\u00e1ska? V n\u011bkter\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech je \u017e\u00e1rlivost spojov\u00e1na s vlastn\u00edm egem. Nejde ani tak o to, \u017ee bychom se b\u00e1li ztr\u00e1ty sv\u00e9 druh\u00e9 polovi\u010dky, jako sp\u00ed\u0161 to, \u017ee n\u00e1s d\u011bs\u00ed p\u0159edstava, \u017ee budeme podvedeni. Spousta lid\u00ed toti\u017e nedok\u00e1\u017ee zkousnout, \u017ee nejsou pro sv\u00e9ho partnera jedin\u00fdm \u017e\u00e1douc\u00edm objektem, a realita, \u017ee byli podvedeni, je pro n\u011b zkr\u00e1tka p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 poni\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed. Rad\u011bji se tak sm\u00ed\u0159\u00ed se ztr\u00e1tou, ne\u017e s nev\u011brou. To ale nem\u00e1 s l\u00e1skou co d\u011blat, a pokud je n\u00e1\u0161 vztah takov\u00fd, mo\u017en\u00e1 je na \u010dase jej p\u0159ehodnotit. Pak jsou zde p\u0159\u00edpady, kdy se \u010dlov\u011bk skute\u010dn\u011b boj\u00ed, \u017ee druh\u00e9ho ztrat\u00ed, a pr\u00e1v\u011b proto \u017e\u00e1rl\u00ed. Pokud je v\u0161ak \u017e\u00e1rlivost v mez\u00edch hysterie, op\u011bt se nejedn\u00e1 o l\u00e1sku. Mus\u00edme si toti\u017e polo\u017eit ot\u00e1zku, pro\u010d nechceme druh\u00e9ho ztratit. Pokud je odpov\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee bez n\u011bj neum\u00edme \u017e\u00edt, jedn\u00e1 se o z\u00e1vislost. V p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b druh\u00e9m, kdy odpov\u00edme, \u017ee k n\u00e1m zkr\u00e1tka pat\u0159\u00ed, se jedn\u00e1 o posedlost. Pokud toti\u017e skute\u010dn\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edme, \u017ee je na\u0161e l\u00e1ska osudov\u00e1, nem\u00e1me d\u016fvod \u017e\u00e1rlit. Kdy\u017e druh\u00e9ho milujeme, mus\u00edme b\u00fdt schopni uv\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee n\u00e1s miluje stejn\u011b tak, a \u017ee mu na\u0161e l\u00e1ska sta\u010d\u00ed.Ochota a gestaAni v\u0161echno to, co jsme pro partnera ochotni ud\u011blat, je\u0161t\u011b nutn\u011b neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee jej milujeme. P\u0159ehnan\u00e1 pot\u0159eba jej chr\u00e1nit, a vy\u0161lap\u00e1vat mu chodn\u00ed\u010dek, je toti\u017e touhou ovl\u00e1dat jeho \u017eivot. Pokud nev\u011b\u0159\u00edme, \u017ee je n\u00e1\u0161 partner sob\u011bsta\u010dn\u00fd, a um\u00ed si poradit, na\u0161e l\u00e1ska k n\u011bmu nejsp\u00ed\u0161 nen\u00ed zrovna siln\u00e1. Pomoc a ochota v l\u00e1sce toti\u017e vypadaj\u00ed tak, \u017ee nech\u00e1me \u010dlov\u011bka jednat s\u00e1m za sebe, a pom\u016f\u017eeme a\u017e ve chv\u00edli, kdy n\u00e1s o to po\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1, nebo to skute\u010dn\u011b pot\u0159ebuje. A ani velk\u00e1 gesta, jako d\u00e1rky, sebeob\u011btov\u00e1n\u00ed, mo\u017en\u00e1 nemus\u00ed znamenat l\u00e1sku. N\u011bkdy si zkr\u00e1tka tak\u0159\u00edkaj\u00edc hon\u00edme ego, \u010di se d\u00e1rky sna\u017e\u00edme p\u0159em\u011bnit partnera k obrazu sv\u00e9mu, nebo si z\u00edskat jeho vd\u011b\u010dnost, abychom jej pak sn\u00e1ze ovl\u00e1dali.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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